23 Life Lessons for 23
So I turned 23 on Monday which is super hype. I was super happy to move on from 22 which definitely had its ups and down. So here are 23 Life Lessons for 23
1.🥳 Go where you are celebrated
Going where you are celebrated is crucial for personal growth and happiness. When we surround ourselves with people who appreciate our talents and support our goals, we are more likely to thrive and succeed. On the other hand, being in an environment where we are constantly criticized or undervalued can be detrimental to our self-esteem and overall well-being. It's important to recognize our own worth and seek out relationships and opportunities that align with our values and goals. By doing so, we can create a positive and fulfilling life for ourselves.
2. 🌱 Relationships are Likes Plants
Relationships are like plants in that they require care and attention to grow and flourish. We must nurture our relationships by taking the time to listen, support, and appreciate the people in our lives. Just like plants need water and sunlight to thrive, relationships need communication and quality time to stay healthy. By investing in our relationships, we allow them to bloom and reach their full potential. This means being there for each other during the good times and the bad, and working together to navigate the challenges that life throws our way. When we prioritize our relationships, we can create deep and meaningful connections that last a lifetime.
3. ⛑ You have to be good at things you don’t want to do, in order to do what you want to do
Sometimes we have to do things we don't want to do in order to achieve our goals. Whether it's working a job we don't love, taking courses we're not interested in, or practicing skills that don't come naturally to us, there are often obstacles we must overcome to get to where we want to be. However, by mastering these skills and pushing through the discomfort, we can gain valuable experience and knowledge that will help us achieve our goals in the long run. We must remember that success doesn't come easy and that hard work and dedication are necessary to achieve our dreams. By taking on challenges and stepping outside of our comfort zones, we can grow and become the best version of ourselves.
4. 🏄🏾♂️ Surface Level Friends Are Great
It's important to recognize that not every relationship needs to be a deep and meaningful one. Sometimes, surface level friendships can be just as fulfilling. Having friends who share your hobbies or interests can be a great way to bond and connect with others without the pressure of having to reveal your deepest thoughts and emotions. These friendships can be a great way to have fun and enjoy life without any added stress or drama. So don't feel like you need to have a close relationship with everyone you meet; sometimes, a simple shared interest is all it takes to form a great friendship.
5. 🏋🏾♂️ Fitness Should Be Mandatory
Fitness should be a mandatory part of our daily routine. Our bodies are designed to move, and regular exercise has been shown to have numerous physical and mental health benefits. However, in our modern lives, it can be challenging to make time for exercise amidst our busy schedules. It's important to recognize that even small amounts of exercise can make a big difference in our overall health and well-being. Striving to incorporate some form of physical activity into our daily routine can help us feel more energized, focused, and productive. Whether it's a quick 10-minute walk around the block or a full workout at the gym, prioritizing our physical health is crucial for living a happy and fulfilling life.
6. 🫂 We have Needs that cannot be met by Ourselves
We all have needs that cannot be met by ourselves or technology. Sometimes, we need the help of others to meet these needs. It's important to accept this and not be afraid to reach out and ask for help when we need it. Additionally, we can also help others meet their needs. By forming connections with others and being there for each other, we can create a supportive community that we can rely on. This means being willing to listen, offer support and advice, and lend a helping hand when needed. When we work together to meet each other's needs, we can create a positive and fulfilling life for ourselves and those around us.
7. 😐 Idle Mind Causes all the Issues: Learn to do work or Learn to Chill
An idle mind can be a dangerous thing. When we have too much free time, we might find ourselves overthinking, worrying, and even becoming anxious. This can lead to all sorts of issues, such as procrastination, depression, and even physical health problems. It's important to learn to either do work or learn to chill when we find ourselves in this state. Sometimes, the best solution is to just focus on a task that needs to be done. Other times, we need to take a step back and do something relaxing, such as meditation or going for a walk. Finding a balance between work and relaxation is key to maintaining a healthy mind and body.
8. 🧠 Physical Glow Ups Must go Hand in Hand with Mental Glow ups
When working on a physical glow up, it's important to also work on your mental health and do the inner work necessary to become the best version of yourself. The changes you make to your outward appearance should be reflective of the changes you're making on the inside. Taking care of your mental health can also help you maintain your physical health in the long run. By building confidence, self-love, and a positive mindset, you'll be able to approach your physical goals with a healthy and sustainable mindset. Remember, true beauty comes from within, and when you work on yourself from the inside out, it will show in all aspects of your life.
9. 🪐 The Universe is a Reflection of You
The universe is a reflection of you and your beliefs. Your thoughts and beliefs shape the reality you experience. If you believe that the world is a negative and hostile place, you will encounter negative and hostile situations. On the other hand, if you believe that the world is full of opportunities and positivity, you will attract positive experiences into your life. The energy you put out into the world is the energy you receive in return. Therefore, it's important to cultivate a positive mindset and beliefs to attract positivity into your life.
10. 🪜 You have the ability to Create Opportunities
We have been conditioned by the education system to believe that we cannot be proactive and that opportunities will come to us if we simply follow the rules and work hard. However, in the real world, taking the first step is crucial. By being proactive and seeking out opportunities, we can create our own path and shape our own destiny. We must learn to take risks and be willing to fail in order to succeed. It's important to remember that success is not handed to us; we must work for it and create our own opportunities.
11. ⚾️ Life Greatest Moments are Decided in a Day
Life's greatest moments are often decided in a single day. Even though we may have had weeks, months, or even years of preparation leading up to a big event, it's often the actions we take on that one crucial day that ultimately determine the outcome. It's in those moments that we have to summon all of our strength, courage, and determination to make things happen. We may face unexpected challenges and setbacks, but it's our ability to adapt and overcome that will ultimately determine our success. So, when the day comes, we must be ready to give it our all and trust in our preparation to carry us through to victory.
12. 💸 Business is the Key to Freedom
Business is the key to freedom and the modern way to conquer the world. In today's society, entrepreneurs have the power to create their own path and shape their own destiny. By starting a business, you have the ability to create your own opportunities and become financially independent. Not only does this give you the freedom to live life on your own terms, but it also allows you to make a positive impact on the world. By providing value to others through your products or services, you have the ability to change lives and make a difference in the world. When I was younger I despised business but as I grew older I realized that this was the key to freedom and now is something I am more interested in and more passionate about.
13. 🧔🏾♂️ As a Man being Masculine feels the best
As a man, being masculine feels empowering and fulfilling. Embracing traditional masculine traits such as strength, courage, and assertiveness has helped me navigate life's challenges with confidence and resilience. Embodying masculinity has been a recent source of my pride and self-esteem. By embracing my masculine traits and using them in positive and constructive ways, I am on my way in becoming the best version of myself and make a positive impact on the world around me.
14. 👨🏾🎓 Leaving College Was the Best Thing: The Real World is Supreme
Graduating college and entering the real world was the best thing that could have happened to me because it allowed me to break free from the conditioning that the education system had instilled in me. In college, I was taught to follow the rules, study hard, and conform to society's expectations. However, in the real world, I quickly realized that success was not handed to me on a silver platter. I had to create my own opportunities and work hard to achieve my goals. This meant taking risks, being willing to fail, and constantly learning and growing. By leaving college and entering the real world, I was able to gain a deeper understanding of how the world works and what it takes to succeed. I am still a work in progress and still am still working on becoming a better person for me and my loved ones.
15. 📚 Read Fiction
In the past, I used to think that reading fiction was a waste of time. I believed that it was just entertainment with no real value or impact on my life. However, as I've read more and more over the last year, I've come to realize that there is so much to be learned from fiction. Stories have the power to inspire, teach, and connect us to our own experiences and emotions. By reading stories that resonate with us, we can gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us. We can learn from the struggles and triumphs of fictional characters, and apply those lessons to our own lives. Whether it's learning about different cultures, gaining new perspectives, or simply getting lost in a good story, reading fiction can be a valuable and enriching experience.
16. 🎶 Be Proud of Your Music Tastes
I used to be embarrassed about my taste in music and would often hide it from others. However, once I started being more open about it, I realized that people actually appreciated my unique taste and that it was a great conversation starter. By embracing my love for music, I was able to connect with others on a deeper level and even make new friends who shared similar interests. It's important to remember that our quirks and interests are what make us unique and special, and that by embracing them, we can attract people who appreciate us for who we are. So don't be afraid to share your passions with others; you might be surprised at how much they appreciate it!
17. 🖼 We are our Hobbies
Our hobbies and interests are a major part of who we are and have a significant impact on our personalities, values, and priorities. They help us develop our skills, passions, and creativity, and provide a sense of fulfillment and purpose in our lives. Our hobbies also reflect what we care about and what we are willing to put time and effort into. Whether it's sports, music, art, or anything else, our hobbies can help us connect with others who share similar interests, and can even lead to new friendships and opportunities. By embracing our hobbies and investing time into them, we can become the best version of ourselves and live a more fulfilling and satisfying life.
18. 🇮🇳 I am Proud to be Indian-American
Growing up, I struggled with being proud of my Indian American heritage. I often felt like an outsider and was ashamed of the things that made me different from my peers. However, as I've grown older, I've come to realize how important it is to embrace my culture and heritage. I've learned to appreciate the traditions, values, and customs that have been passed down through my family, and I'm proud to share those things with others. I refuse to hide my culture or downplay my heritage because of what others may think or say. Instead, I choose to celebrate my differences and embrace the unique perspective that being Indian American has given me.
19. 🦖 I am an Apex Predator
A lot of my anxiety used to stem from the fear that other people could attack me and I would be helpless to defend myself. However, since working out and prioritizing my physical health, I've come to realize that I am much more athletic and stronger than the average person I see on the street. This has given me a newfound sense of confidence and security, knowing that if needed, I could defend myself and those around me. Through fitness, I've not only improved my physical health but also my mental health, as I feel more empowered and in control of my life.
20. 🐾 People Want to be Friendly but you must take the first step
Many people want to be friendly and make connections with others, but they may be shy or hesitant to take the first step. If you take the initiative and are friendly to others, they are likely to return the same energy. By being open and approachable, you can create a positive and welcoming environment that encourages others to be themselves and form connections with you. It's important to remember that everyone has their own insecurities and fears, and by being kind and understanding, you can help others overcome these barriers and build meaningful relationships. So don't be afraid to take the first step and be friendly; you might be surprised at how much it can change your life.
21. 🙋🏾♂️ Social Anxiety can be Cured
Social anxiety can be cured by reflecting on our limiting beliefs and taking action to remove them. By examining our thoughts and emotions and identifying the root causes of our anxiety, we can begin to challenge and change the negative thought patterns that hold us back. This may involve seeking out therapy or counseling, practicing mindfulness and meditation, or simply taking small steps towards facing our fears and building confidence. By taking an active role in our own healing, we can overcome social anxiety and live a more fulfilling and confident life.
22. 🔮 We are our Beliefs
Our beliefs shape our reality and determine the course of our lives. The way we perceive ourselves and the world around us has a profound impact on our thoughts, actions, and decisions. Negative beliefs can hold us back and prevent us from reaching our full potential, while positive beliefs can inspire and motivate us to achieve great things. Therefore, it's crucial to cultivate a positive mindset and believe in ourselves and our abilities. By doing so, we can approach life with confidence and resilience, and overcome the challenges and obstacles that come our way. When we believe in ourselves and our potential, we can create a positive and fulfilling life for ourselves and those around us.
23. 🩸 Chose Pain over Pleasure
In today's modern world, it's easy to get lost in the distractions of everyday life. We are bombarded with notifications, advertisements, and endless sources of entertainment that can take us away from our goals and priorities. However, if we want to grow and become mentally stronger, it's important to choose pain over pleasure. This means being willing to sacrifice short-term pleasure for long-term gain. It means setting goals and prioritizing our time and energy towards achieving them, even if it means facing discomfort or adversity along the way. By choosing pain over pleasure, we can develop discipline, resilience, and a stronger sense of purpose. We can learn to overcome setbacks and challenges, and become the best version of ourselves.
Thank you for reading, let's grow together :)